So, I didn’t think I was going to continue with Curious Curls. I started a new blog on a subject where I didn’t feel I had to be anonymous…but then this week a whole flurry of suitors has come knocking at my door and gosh darn it I feel like sharing.
Remember Boy Toy? Well, he hasn’t given up trying to see me just ONE more time. Admittedly I did flirt with him via email and an occassional phone call, toying with the idea of what it would be like to hang out with someone so much younger again. I finally caved and told him he’s too young and I can’t promise that he would get any if we got together..and would you believe it he was fine with it. Happy to go for drinks and be friends! Shocking. So he’s lined up for drinks tonight and I think I plan on kissing him for being such a good sport.
Then there’s the Fireman. Sigh, yes I had the opportunity to live out every girls dream of shagging a hot, chizelled bodied fireman last summer and it seems like he’s back for more. Emails appeared out of the blue just two days ago trying to make excuses to start climbing with me again. This relationship was almost purely based on sex and emails..with spring in the air it’s hard not to answer the call.
Where the true interest lies for me is with this new guy I met online. I didn’t realize until now that the online world actually produces guys who are handsome, successful and nice. Generally you get one of the three. First date was a happy surprise over coffee, then second date we went rock climbing…and can I just say what a beautiful view (hot, hot and more hot) When guys have really physically fit physiques like that I get a little intimidated. When the date ended he walked all the way back to my end of town and seemed interested in hanging out again. Why is it that when you meet someone you are clearly attracted to, a little bit of insecurity appears doubting yourself and assuming that they’re probably not that into you. Coping mechanism perhaps?
So I guess as a form of keeping my options open I’ve lined up another date for tomorrow. An intriguing Asian guy from the online world who has a penchant for arts and rockclimbing sent me a wink last week and while he might land up on the friends side of the table I think i’ll be in for a fun Saturday night
Talk about not putting your eggs all in one basket!
